Episode 160

Exposure to Offers (Pt. 3): The #1 Thing That Gets Her Recruited

Published on: 28th October, 2025

Everyone talks about exposure. But if that were the secret, every player with a highlight reel would be signing letters of intent.

In Part 3 of our Exposure to Offers series, we reveal the real game-changer: self-leadership.

Because coaches aren’t just watching your stats — they’re watching how you carry yourself.

In this episode, we break down:

What self-leadership actually looks like in athletes

How it impacts offers (even without direct feedback from coaches)

The small, incremental actions that make you unforgettable

If you want to stand out — not just get seen — this is the episode to lock in.

Want to make some REAL progress in recruiting? Get her Ready for Offers at https://www.mentalsweetspot.com/readyforoffers

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About the Podcast

Signed & Ready

College Recruiting + Mental Game Mastery for Softball Athletes and Families

Signed & Ready is the go-to podcast for softball athletes and families navigating the college recruiting process—and preparing to thrive once they get there.

Hosted by Alicia Smith, head coach, recruiting mentor, and mental performance expert, this show pulls back the curtain on what really moves the needle in college recruiting: leadership, composure, and confidence under pressure.

If you're a parent wondering how to support your daughter without overstepping—or an athlete who wants to feel ready, not just look ready—you're in the right place.

Each episode delivers practical strategies, real talk, and coach-level insights on:

Standing out in the recruiting process (beyond the stats)

Building confidence that actually shows up on game day

Leading yourself through high-pressure moments

Thriving in college athletics with a strong mental game

This isn’t just about getting signed.
It’s about becoming the kind of athlete coaches can’t ignore—and the kind of leader who’s ready for the next level.

👉 New episodes weekly. Subscribe now and start building your mental edge—from the inside out.

About your host

Melanie Rushing

If you're the type of coach who believes team culture is key, mental training is a secret weapon, and we can make the biggest impact when we coach the whole person, this podcast is for you!

Hey! We're Melanie Rushing & Alicia Smith - just a couple of softball coaches like you, who want to share our passion for building team culture & mentally tough players.

New episodes are released on Mondays and are typically about 30 minutes long. Just enough time to drive the field or give it a good drag.

We share what we've learned in our 30+ combined years of on-field experience (influenced by our Sport Psych, Coaching Sport Performance & Leadership education)

PLUS we bring on guests from the top softball teams, field of sport psychology and those who specialize in sport performance!

SO if you want to learn actionable tips and strategies to help your team win more games and have more fun head to your podcast player of choice & subscribe!

Talk to you soon!